5 Key Factors To Swooping Latinas
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Latinas are a different breed of woman. Latin culture is very macho, the women are very feminine, bubbly, and male and female roles in Latin culture are more strictly defined and understood than what you are use to when dealing with 100% American women.
It’s hard to box all Latin women into generalizations because there are so many different types of Latin Women. You have the Latin women who grew up in your own country (most likely the U.S.A), who may have a mixed upbringing and with mixed Latino-American culture. You have newly arrived Latinas who grew up in Latin America and are in your back yard to visit. And even within Latin America, you have for example the white Argentine women of Buenos Aires who are notoriously tough to seduce, the more easy going Caribbean women who know how, and love to dance to just about anything, and you have more reserved, Latin women of the Andean regions of Latin America. Despite all these differences, if I had to pick the top five factors that will most likely be factors when trying to swoop Latin women, I’d go with this list:
#1: Leading
Machismo is very much alive in Latin America, although the level of this Machismo ranges throughout countries and regions. In general, Latin men are expected to be the bread winners. Men are expected to take charge and lead the interactions. This applies to mixed groups but also to one on one interaction. If a group of men and women go out in Latin America, the men usually chip in for the drinks. The men pick the location and decide where to go and what to do.
In fact, this is so much ingrained in the culture that if you don’t do this, the women will think you’re weak. When I first started traveling and dating women raised in Latin America I actually had women tell me “You’re the man, you’re supposed to decide what were going to do and where to go.” I didn’t just hear it from one woman; I heard it many times before it went through my thick skull. Latin women like to feel that they are with a man that can protect her, get sh*t done, and knows how to take care of things.
So when you’re trying to swoop those fly Latin mamis, remember, don’t be afraid to make the decisions, don’t supplicate, lead through the whole interaction, if something doesn’t go well take responsibility for it, take a deep breath, grab your balls and be the f*cking man.
#2: Language
There’s nothing better than surprising a Latin with even just a few words in her language. The truth is most Americans are too lazy to learn a new language. And since English is the most popular language on the planet, there’s very little incentive to learn a new one. But if you want to get “in” with the Latin women while you’re swooping them, you need to get down at least a few key phrases.
Learning a few words of phrases will help out with Latin women who know English, but if you’re trying to swoop Latin women in Latin America on their own turf, you’re going to need some fluency in most cases. The good news is that there are only two languages spoken throughout all of Latin America. And the even better news is that those two languages are very similar to each other: Spanish and Portuguese.
If you want to go to Brazil, and swoop some fly Brazileiras learn Portuguese. If you want to swoop Latin women anywhere else in Latin America learn Spanish.
You don’t need to become an expert, just get some conversational fluency and you’re all set.
#3 Dancing
Not all Latin women know how to dance, but it’s one of the biggest aspects of Latin Culture. Latinas almost go hand in hand with music and dance, especially if you’re talking about some of the most popular destinations like Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic, Colombia, Brazil, Costa Rica, and Cuba.
Being an American you get a lot more points if you know just the basics.
Also, Latin dances let you get up close and touching even if you just met. Most Latin dances involve hand clasping and an a light embrace which lets you get right up close, exactly where you want to be for the swoop.
Besides the touching and the points you get for knowing how to dance, taking a girl out to dance in Latin clubs and all over Latin America is a great opener, it’s easy and if you hit any bar or club in Latin America your chances of getting shot down are almost zero. Clubs in the U.S. are a bit different, but it’s still really easy to go up to a fly Latina, extend your hand with a smile and tell her “vamos a bailar.”
#4 Looks:
This last one is very touchy and you won’t hear it much from anyone else but it’s the truth. Latin women are in some ways very superficial and looks is one of those areas that can either make or break you. Latin women are the same when it comes to other women in the fact that they like guys who are in shape, lean, muscular etc. Tall guys will also do better. If you’re lean, in shape, dress sharp, and are tall then you have good chances of swooping lots of Latin women.
But the one factor that you cannot control that influences your chances greatly is RACE. The truth is that decent looking Caucasian men have an advantage over all other races in Latin America. The reason for this is that ever since the colonization of Latin America, the ruling class, wealthy and elite in Latin America have been of white European decent. Even to this day, if you go to the poor parts of any Latin city you’ll see a more black and Mestizo population. If you go to the rich parts of town, you’ll see more people that fit a Caucasian description.
If you’re white, Latinas will generally be more attracted to you because of this. Unfortunately the other side of this coin is that black men and men with Mestizo or indigenous features will experience less of this initial physical attraction from Latinas.
Although white guys have the upper hand with many Latinas there are certain regions, cities, and places in Latin America where this isn’t as much of an issue. If you’re white you can go to pretty much anywhere but if you’re black I’d suggest going to coastal cities which usually have a much more diverse population. Also try sticking to Caribbean countries and Brazil.
#5 Financial Stability:
When it comes to swooping Latinas there’s one last thing I’d list in the top five factors and that would be your financial stability. Latin America is a region of the world that has one of the highest income disparities in the whole world. This means that a very few people hold most of the wealth and everyone else gets by on very little.
Because of this Latin women who grew up in Latin America either directly experienced these economic limitations or have family who has. Even Latin women who live in your back yard probably have family back in Latin America with economic limitations.
Because of this, Latinas value economic stability a lot more than most western women. But this doesn’t mean you have to wine and dine her. All a Latina needs to know is that you can handle your finances. If you’re in the U.S. you might need a bit more to show this, but if you’re in Latin America, just the fact that you had enough to buy your plane ticket to Latin America already shows you have some kind of financial stability.
So don’t get me wrong on this. You only need to show that you can handle your finances and not necessarily wine and dine the Latina you’re swopping.
The Final Swoop:
So to sum it all up. Be a man and lead your Latina through the swoop. Learn some Spanish or Portuguese. Learn some Latin dance moves, in fact get a Latina to teach you! If you’re a decent looking white guy you have an advantage with many Latinas but this isn’t make or break if you can compensate with some game and can handle the other factors. Show your financial stability, but you don’t have to spend a lot to do this, especially if you’re in Latin America.
– Dan DeLa Cruz
http://www.globaldatingrevolution.com
CUMBIA COLOMBIANA
16/06/2010 at 1:50 pm Permalink
Y0ur post was mostly on point but the one point where I disagree is the fact about white dudes vs. black dudes. I was born in Cuba (Afro-Cuban) lived there until I was 10 years old now live in the States and have traveled throughout South America and I have cleaned up from Peru to Argentina. Albeit I may have a slight advantage because I speak Spanish but in reality the American Black man is probably the most prized sex object on the entire planet.
Don’t get me wrong a white dude probably has a better chance of settling down and marrying a Latin chick from another country but as far as getting in and getting out Latinas are by far the easiest pieces on Earth.
17/06/2010 at 9:41 am Permalink
Just got back from Panama. If you are white, the girls think you are a millionaire, automatically. Recommendation for sightseeing: The Palace. Recommendation for action: La Bodeguita. They supposedly cost 300 a roll, but not if you have game.
17/06/2010 at 4:41 pm Permalink
What are your 5 Key Factors To Swooping Asians?
17/06/2010 at 7:42 pm Permalink
Thumbs up.
I can’t wait to hit Latin America and will keep these things in mind.
There is a lot of similarities with east Asia here with regards
leading, ethnicity and finical stability.
Keep em coming.
18/06/2010 at 8:36 am Permalink
I agree. White dudes definitely have better chances in latin america however the rest of your advice is pretty much common sense and applies to women all over the world
18/06/2010 at 9:52 am Permalink
I feel like it’s really easy to find and smash spanish chicks in NY who are usually puerto rican or dominican but to be honest, the quality is nothing like the girls in South America or even on the actual islands in the Caribbean. It’s like once they get to NY they think it’s ok to be a fat, loud and disgusting American.
18/06/2010 at 2:35 pm Permalink
I’m sure you know more than me. However, this sounds like the list to get any girl from anywhere. I don’t know if I can agree on the being white part. I bet it doesn’t hurt. However, I heard that same thing when I went to live in Japan. I am of East Indian background, but am American, and I swooped out there like any white or black dude.
18/06/2010 at 10:07 pm Permalink
Guys the race thing doesn’t make or break you, but it is a factor. IF you can handle the other factors plus tighten up your game then it won’t be much of a factor and you’ll do just as well as El Diablo. But that still doesn’t take away the fact that race does play it’s part with a lot of Latin women, at least in the initial phase of physical attraction.
As far as the list applying to any women. It does apply to a lot of foreign women. If you want to date foreign women, it’s a good idea to learn about their language and culture. But the dancing and leading, although they might apply to other women, apply that much more to Latinas. Think about it this way, in any Latin dance, the man leads the woman. One of the first things you learn to do in Latin dance is to lead, and get use to leading. So just keep that in mind.
20/06/2010 at 3:38 pm Permalink
These points are true. As for race, if you’re black, you’ll do better in a reggaeton club then a regular salsa or bar spot. The only disadvantage here is that peacocking is huge: girls are into the guys wearing big shades in the club, and having that latin thug look. But in poor latin american countries, you can get by with a pair of gaudy Prada shades and have no problem. True story.
22/06/2010 at 5:52 am Permalink
Intelligently done & priceless advices.
What are your 5 Key Factors To Swooping Asians ? – one of the members pointed out above.
🙂
22/06/2010 at 2:06 pm Permalink
Family is very important to them. I always lie and say i’m a mommas boy. Showing them pitures of your aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents helps build a connection. Don’t ever do or say anything feminine. I know a Nicaraguan girl who dumped her bf because he moaned during sex. She said he moaned like a girl.
29/06/2010 at 9:00 am Permalink
Agreed. Living in Mexico as an Indian i do a ton better with darker and indigenous looking women then white chicks.
30/06/2010 at 8:32 pm Permalink
Wat’s up G… Can i post this article in my blog?
its on point.
28/07/2010 at 2:34 pm Permalink
Agree on everything, specially the leading bit. Growing up in Latin America, I learned that women expect a man to take charge, and look down on those who dont. (They might or might not like the macho-alpha attitude, but they EXPECT men to be like that).
Asking a girl, on a date, “So, what do you want to do?” is a deal breaker for them.
About the race/ethnicity part. At least in Mexico (I dont know about other countries) its not really a race thing as it is more of a status thing. White/caucasian people are perceived as having a higher status, as generations of higher income groups tended to originate from european expatriate families. A man of native extraction can do well, but he will have to work a bit harder.
09/10/2011 at 11:38 am Permalink
Interesting article. A few points are very true like the fact that you need to make all the decisions with them for the most part. Many guys that are used to the controlling American girl factor and move into the Latin American dating fail for that reason alone. It’s a whole different ball game. As far as the superficial white guy thing, I tend to disagree. I think it’s more of an opposite attraction thing.
07/11/2011 at 9:07 am Permalink
WHAT IS A DISCREET WAY TO ASK A FEMALE FRIEND IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND?
17/12/2012 at 12:15 am Permalink
I’m a Latina and this is pretty on point. We do expect the alpa macho attitude from men. If we don’t sense that vibe from them it is truly a deal breaker. We like to feel protected. And as you said most of us come from economically impaired families and have struggled as it is in our lives. We don’t want to feel that we are going to have to struggle even more with a man who is not yet stable. We are go getters ourselves but we need to know that he is able to provide too!
21/02/2013 at 3:45 pm Permalink
You can not clump latin women in one category. Some of them, specially some from Columbia are more independent and career oriented. Look at Shakira and Sofia Vergara both of them borned and raised in the coast of Columbia.
Women seek economic stability, even the ones of higher socio-economic status.
Since white males are associated with better economic status, this is one reason some of them go for white males. A man, who is millionare with a witty personality, regardless of race, could get any woman he wants. A guy, who is o.k looking but has an incredible sense of humor, can get away with having no money.
See NBA players dating history.
01/03/2013 at 5:16 am Permalink
If you have enough game you can swoop girls from any race, no matter what race you are, but no one can deny that there are certain trends in interracial dating. When it comes to blacks and whites, you see black guys with white girls all the time everywhere you look, while white guy/black girl pairings are a lot more rare. This is for a lot of different reasons that are better left unsaid. With whites and Latin Americans, things seem more balanced. Latinas definitely dig white guys, but white girls also love the “latin lovers.”
25/03/2013 at 1:41 pm Permalink
Be careful that this “leading” advice does’t backfire on you. I would suggest testing the waters in this respect as you would with any other woman. As a Latina, the only reason I ever found myself looking outside my race was in attempt to escape the whole “machismo” attitude that seemed to prevail in my culture.
I do agree with the advice to take responsibility if something doesn’t go well since this is an indicator of maturity and wisdom (far more attractive qualities than “machisimo” could ever be).
01/04/2013 at 3:52 am Permalink
This is deffinately on point, agree with every single idea brought up here.
14/06/2013 at 8:20 pm Permalink
trying to pin down an entire race of people, as ethnically diverse, as latina/os is ridiculous. yea overall, and being VERY generalistic it was good enuff. but for example, in nyc, puerto rican and dominican women, LOVE black men, in tx, mexican women like white men, etc. the whole race thing is so situational. what ive personally noticed is, women regardless of ethnicity/race, tend to go for the opposite, ex: a girl from an upper middle class family wants a thuuug haha… but a girl from the projects wants a college guy. im puerto rican, from nyc, every pr, dominican, cuban, colombain girl i know, has been wit at least 1 black guy. besides the fact that, lets not forget, every latin nationality i just named, will almost always have some “sub-saharan african” in there blood. yes true alot of latinas i know go for white guys too, but its in a much different manner then how they go after black or other latin men. like a previous post said. good luck white guys, cuz if any ethnic chick likes u-cuz ur white, she a stupid fkn gold digger..
01/08/2013 at 7:32 pm Permalink
I never thought Spanish grls were that easy. I prefer the Native looking girls, with natural tans and Asian like features, or Europeans. Went to college with afew and believe me I found them far more attractive than blonde American girls. I don’t know why but latin women, or Mediterranean women have always turned me on the most. Mind you Im of Northern European extraction and born in the USA. Most of my friends don’t know why I have this fetish but I have just always found these women to be attractive, plus early on in my childhood I lived in a poor area in the US and many of the girls were Latin American. I never found Puerto Ricans to be attractive but the few Mexican/Guatamalan girls were very attractive to me. Even Brazilian girls I find appealing however they to me seem the most stuck up or very materialistic. The Mexican girls were pretty nice but unfortunately never got to date any after I moved from Boston. Most girls in my area are fat Puerto Ricans which are loud and annoying. Well Im off to college and hopefully get to meet one!
09/08/2013 at 6:38 am Permalink
Good read, but largely, this advice can be applied to ANY woman, especially outside of the USA. For example, they call it “machismo” in Latin America, and most other places they call it confidence. Where I fail to agree is the notion that white guys have a big advantage. My response to that is, well, if a woman equates a race with dollar signs, chances are any member of that race will win himself a gold digger. Latinas are not stupid. They can spot a financially stable and confident man from a mile away regardless of what his race is. And contrary to popular beliefs, these women aren’t sitting at home waiting for a man to magically show up to write her meal ticket. They are going to school and have jobs, etc just like many modern women, especially in more economically well off countries like Brazil. The guys that think their race equates to dollar signs to Latina women, and that’s all they need to bag one; are the guys that marry these women who promptly bail on them when they get to the states. Being a one trick pony gets old to any woman fast.
I’m Black with Irish and Native American blood, average looking, with a 6 figure income and a college degree, and I have never had issues swooning any Latina I had my eye on, rather she was Salvadorian, Mexican, Ecuadorian, or Peruvian with Mestizo bloodlines, Argentinean with German bloodlines, or Cubans, Dominicans, Brazilians, Puerto Ricans with African and Spanish bloodlines. Hell, in fact, rather in the states or abroad, I seem to sometimes have a bullseye on my head from Latinas, which (when I was single anyway) I did not mind at all. The key as with all women, is confidence. As long as you have a set of balls, smile, don’t dress like a rift-raft, and can engage in an intelligent conversation, Latinas will take off the panties just as fast as any other female regardless of what your race is. As for family, as long as you can show you have a future ahead of you, they are easy to win over as well. For a number of years after a relationship that ended with a Dominican girl, her parents still maintained contact with me. And I can’t say I’m a rare case either. I know plenty of Black guys currently married to Latinas.
23/08/2013 at 8:57 pm Permalink
Read the complete post, and some comments too.I would have to add to your list, PERSONAL GROOMING!!
I’m a latin girl and the biggest turn off in foreigners,in general, is that they don’t take it seriously enough. I know this as a fact, if you want to have a chance in daylight and not inside a club only. Do yourself a favor guys, clean your ears, cut your nails, check there isn’t any junk under them, wash your teeth, use deodorant and foot products..showers are very very welcomed! you could get lucky and get a shower partner. It doesn’t matter if you tall, lean and muscular, if your feet stink and we can see some ear wax…there is no way in HELL that we will ever consider getting touched by you (some girls will, if they are very drunk, but that happens everywhere)
Also consider checking your wardrobe, I’ve seen too many foreigners that dress in such a way no girl would look at them. It’s not about expensive clothes or jewelry, it’s about knowing what goes with what..sandals are okey if you’re going to the pool or beach, not at a club! dress shoes at a club? really? Girls take really good care of their looks, so should you!..but everything else i would say is spot on!..
22/09/2013 at 8:22 am Permalink
I’m latin but white looking, born and raised in the USA. Its true all of these tips are true. From my experience being agressive works alot more with latinas than white girls. Most american latinas will go for a white guy however if you want to settle down it maybe a different story. Ive met two latinas that could have settled down with rich men, but refused saying that their kids would suffer identity issue and be teased by their family. Again family if very important to alot of them.
03/11/2013 at 6:44 pm Permalink
in my experience the machismo thing doesnt work out. a lot of latinas are tired of the third world machismo and like that american guys arent as controlling. They like confidence and initiative though. i found a book that has some pretty good tips and phrases
http://www.amazon.com/Loving-Latinas-Spanish-Phrases-Romance-ebook/dp/B00GER0RM4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1383527840&sr=8-1&keywords=loving+latinas
07/05/2014 at 11:10 pm Permalink
I think that more than machismo, “taking the lead” may mean more like showing some decision making. Many Latin American women work and are independent, and so, decision making is important, so when I go on dates, I want the guy to surprise me, let me see what you’ve planned and thought out. It’s just to show me a bit of the person with whom I walk.
Economic stability is a big thing, for any woman I think!
I think a lot of us look for ambition in our partners, fun, acceptance, capability, but not a machista really.